Like I've mentioned before, I have lived in Seguin sinse I was four years old. I know most people want to get away when they go to college, but TLU has been my home for fourteen years. I just couldn't resist staying four more years to finally become an officail TLU Bulldog. Because I live so close to campus, I am still staying at home. It would be pretty foolish of me to spend all the money to live on campus when I could walk to class if I wanted to.
Being a commuter is sometimes hard. I get asked all the time, "Don't you want freedom? Don't you want independence? Really, you still live with your parents?" Sometimes it's hard to combat with these questions, making me doubt myself. But then I go home at the end of a long day, and spend the evening with my family, and I realize how homesick I would be if I had moved away. I go to sleep in my bedroom surounded by all the things that make me feel comfortable and at home, and I feel strong in who I am. Going home in the evening everyday gives me time to recoop and reevaluate my day. It gives me time to reconnect with my family and stay true to myself. I am very close to my family. I am not one of those who wanted to get far away as soon as possible. I would be devistated if I lived so far away that I couldn't spend time with my sisters. I can be myself with my family, and they give me support whenever I need it.
As for independence and freedom, I am on my own all day util I come home, making my own decisions. I am responsible for my homework, and going to class on time. I have the freedom to choose who I want to hang out with, to become who I want to be, to decide on the career path I want to pursue. I came to TLU to get a quality education that will jump start my future. Inndependence will come; I have my whole life ahead of me to be on my own. Right now, I am thankful that I have the support of my family as I move through this transition.
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